Meet the Grief App Creators

Saundra Neperud has lived a full and unusual life. She predicted Old Faithful as a volunteer ranger, led boat tours to calving glaciers in Alaska, served in the Peace Corps in Thailand, taught on the Navajo Nation and Hopi Reservation, and owned a hotel in Maine. She started nonprofits, coordinated disaster response, and said goodbye to countless people along the way, often knowing she might never see them again. She thought she understood loss.

Then at 41, she met Eric Neperud, the love of her life. Two weeks after they got engaged, her mother was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and died eight months later. Eleven years after that, Eric was told he might have stage 4 cancer too. He died before the biopsy results came back.

After Eric’s death, Saundra spent a year focused on her mental health, and ran headfirst into how hard grief support is to find. She couldn’t locate a single secular, in-person grief group in her entire city. The therapist her insurance covered had no grief experience, and it helped so little she stopped after a few sessions. She bought books, but her grief-fogged brain could barely manage the simplest exercises. It amazed her that help was this hard to find, when people die every day.

A year after Eric’s death, someone showed Saundra an app built to help people stop drinking, and she realized something similar could help people understand and work through grief. She began interviewing hospice nurses, therapists, grief counselors, and funeral directors to learn what people in mourning actually need. That’s how she met Emily, and The Grief App began to take shape.

Emily J. Danekas is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Grief Specialist with over 20 years of experience working with individuals and families through loss. Her career spans the full arc of grief care, from hospice and end-of-life work to long-term bereavement counseling, and she has walked with people through nearly every kind of loss a person can carry.

Emily is the only grief therapist serving her three-county area, a scarcity that shaped her commitment to building tools people in grief can actually reach. There are so few resources available to the bereaved, and she wanted to help create something that could reach people when and where they needed it, not only inside a therapist’s office.

Her path to grief work began almost by accident. Years ago, she sat with a close friend through the loss of someone they loved, staying present through the hardest days, and in that room she realized this was the work she was meant to do. She has been doing it ever since, walking alongside people through the losses that reshape a life. Her approach is grounded and unhurried, built on the belief that grief is not a problem to be solved but an experience to be witnessed and moved through.

On The Grief App, Emily serves as the clinical foundation. She reviewed every function of the app to ensure it is sound and appropriate for someone navigating grief, originated the audio journal feature, and co-wrote the guidance, wording, and the majority of the workbook activities in close partnership. Her clinical judgment is the reason the app feels less like software and more like sitting with someone who truly understands.

Adam is a Certified Fellow in Thanatology, Certified Grief Coach, as well as a Licensed Funeral Director and Certified Funeral Service Practitioner, with decades of experience researching and working with grief and bereavement.

Adam holds a Master of Science degree in Thanatology, a Bachelor of Science degree in Psychology, and a Bachelor of Science degree in Funeral Service. He volunteers as a mentor for aspiring and newly-licensed funeral directors with the Continuing the Vision Mentorship Program, with which he is also a member of the Administrative Team. He also facilitates grief support groups with HealGrief.org. As a Grief and Death Care Educator, Adam is an Instructor for the Center for Death Education, and creates content as an Expert Contributor for the Help Texts text-based aftercare program.

Adam’s passion for grief work is anchored in years spent working in acute health care settings, and his more recent years working as a licensed funeral director, as well as his own experience as a human who has grieved. Experiencing the grief process in an anticipatory setting before a death has occurred, as well as counseling bereaved families and friends as a licensed funeral director as the grief process (often rapidly) unravels after a death has occurred, has fundamentally shaped how he sees and approaches grief, and has made his desire to engage in helping others through their grief that much more significant.

It is his belief that there is one universality in the grief experience: no grief experience is greater or less than the experience of another. Grief wears many more masks than one, and it looks entirely different from person to person.