If your person was sick for a long time, medical buildings become a thing.
Doesn’t matter what kind. You go in for a routine cleaning and something just hits you. You spent so much time in and out of those places. Hospitals. Clinics. Care facilities. That’s where everything happened.
Even filling out a form at a new doctor’s office. They ask your marital status. Widow isn’t a choice. So you check single. It wasn’t your choice. But that’s what it says.
It takes a while to get past that. And that’s completely normal.